Well after about 2 months of it being in the shop, it turns out that one of the wires on the harness was severed. The wire was damaged when i ran the power cable for my amp through the firewall. I don't understand how they didn't think of testing the wiring up until now. They told me they had swapped in a new BCM, and they were swapping parts from a known good Altima and they wouldn't work in my car, but they put my parts into the other one, and it worked fine.So is there an ending to this story? I'd really like to know how it was repaired.
So the problem was found, and it is currently being repaired.
Lets just say, this is the most expensive stereo install EVER.